Sometimes I get tired of being kind and nice...how about you... (+16)
says Sukiesnow on May 5th 17 (#809037)
Being mean and miserable, makes you mean and miserable.
Shouldnt have to force being kind, though. If someone doesnt deserve kindness, then honesty is your best bet.
says Carla on May 5th 17 (#2559693)
Carla! I'm tired of being nice! I want to be like Judge Judy.
says Sukiesnow on May 5th 17 (#2559695)
Well, she IS brutaly honest.
says Carla on May 5th 17 (#2559698)
Never knew you were .....we live and learn...hehe
says Platinum on May 5th 17 (#2559721)
What happened to the rest of this conversation?
The parts where you were being reasonable and Sukie went crazy?
says ChuckTom on May 19th 17 (#2571343)
says Platinum on May 19th 17 (#2571493)
It's true...you are a senior...
Being on Amirite is good for you....it's another learning curve in your life when you thought you were done.
says Sukiesnow on May 20th 17 (#2572318)
I'm better as ** or an inconsiderate **.
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says Markymark on May 5th 17 (#2559734)
If everyone likes you, you're not being real enough.
says Tiffanee on May 5th 17 (#2559739)
says Will_Janitor on May 5th 17 (#2559765)
Honesty is the best way, but you can be kind as you are being honest. Unless the guy is a **! Then you just rip him a new **. Ha!
says Will_Janitor on May 5th 17 (#2559764)
"rip him a new ****"... I think I haven't heard that expression before. lol
says primeiro on May 6th 17 (#2559935)
A long time ago I was labeled America's Sweetheart...Always being kind and nice to the entire world. Something I have learned is that I am am not allowed to have a God Damn bad day ever or say what is on my mind or stand up for myself...if I do then I am lectured about how I am not supposed to be like that, I am not sleeping enough or eating right or whatever.
If I say one thing out of the way to anyone who sometimes deserves it...I am the **** bad guy...again another lecture comes. I am always expected to be this illuminating ray of sparkling sunshine but the thing is...I do have bad days or times where I wanna stand up for myself but I am not supposed to show it or I am just supposed to smile and wait for karma to settle it...because the expectations are set I am to be nice and kind 24/7.
So yes to answer your question...I do get sick and tired of always being kind and nice 24/7. I don't want to be mean 24/7 either...I just get tired of having to hide how I feel when I ain't really feeling kind and nice.
says Lil_Princess on May 6th 17 (#2560034)
Hon...sometimes I think I can't be any other way than kind and nice...it's just an instinctive reaction....
says Sukiesnow on May 7th 17 (#2560854)
I can be the other way if pushed way to far but it takes a lot to bring me to the breaking point. I just get frustrated sometimes and the day I made that comment I was really frustrated.
says Lil_Princess on May 7th 17 (#2560883)
And that's why I made this post...sometimes being kind and nice can lead to frustration...
says Sukiesnow on May 7th 17 (#2560889)
says Darkest_Serenity on May 6th 17 (#2560145)
Sometimes being nice gets you a kick in the gut.
says StarzAbove on May 6th 17 (#2560191)
Yes. Either now or later. I'm more clear now when I help people... "I'm doing this not just because I love you...but also because you've always been helpful to me in the past...and I thank you for that."
says Sukiesnow on May 6th 17 (#2560286)
Everyone has a limit. I tend to avoid the internet when I'm in a bad mood though. Or if I use it, I keep on the happy stuff (funny/cute animals or funny people, for example).
says Sofia on May 7th 17 (#2560559)
says Sukiesnow on May 7th 17 (#2560852)
I always try to be sweet and loving but... you are my punching bag. I've never thanked you until now :)
says ChuckTom on May 16th 17 (#2567906)
Sometimes the fake smiling makes my face hurt. :)
says DW2 on May 16th 17 (#2567940)
Having been in the food industry for a while. I truly hope that someday I will have the balls to walk up to a snooty, condescending, full fledged **** of a customer and say, "We gift wrapped one of our finest sharpest kitchen knives for you. Everybody here truly hopes that you simply use it to make the world a better place. Thank you for your patronage. You truly deserve this." :)
says DW2 on May 16th 17 (#2567961)
I must have missed that....just my humour
says Platinum on May 16th 17 (#2567965)
According to some, I was never kind or nice to begin with... *shrug*
says TheCensoredBrit on May 16th 17 (#2568106)
Neither am I.
says Sukiesnow on May 19th 17 (#2571100)
That's the most truthful thing you've ever said.
says ChuckTom on May 19th 17 (#2571338)
Tell me something I don't already know.
says TheCensoredBrit on May 20th 17 (#2572298)
says Sukiesnow on May 20th 17 (#2572315)